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Laurentiu Lupu MD's avatar

What this piece makes newly clear is that age does not produce wisdom by accumulation alone. Experience has to be metabolized.

That is what gives the essay its force. Time can expose a person to uncertainty, loss, contradiction, and limitation, but exposure is not yet wisdom. Wisdom seems to emerge when experience is worked on through reflection, emotional regulation, perspective-taking, and the willingness to let life revise the self rather than merely harden it.

What makes the piece especially strong is that it shifts the question from chronology to interpretation. The deeper issue is not how many years a person has lived, but what kind of inner work has been done with what those years have given and taken away.

Gail Post, Ph.D.'s avatar

Laurentiu, thank you for your comments!

Charles McLachlan's avatar

This article explores how wisdom develops not just with age, but through self-reflection, emotional regulation, and openness to new experiences. It highlights how wisdom grows through life’s challenges and how self-awareness, learning from setbacks, and staying open to growth help build it. Wisdom can serve as a protective buffer in older adulthood.

Gail Post, Ph.D.'s avatar

Charles, thank you for your thoughts.

Jill CampbellMason's avatar

Wisdom comes as long as we are alive. Maybe half-frozen? Maybe with far too much humor...but those are from my perspective. From yours, or others' perspectives, it might be different.

Can you see me virtually smiling?

Gail Post, Ph.D.'s avatar

Thank you so much, Jill. Yes, humor is certainly essential! I appreciate your input.